How to Design a Life and Home to Age On Your Terms
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The thing is planned. Exactly. The thing is planned for you. So, one of the things that I love about, you know, aging is that fact that everything is so incredibly built and designed now.
A plan without any goals is just a wish.
Don't make people do what you haven't done already. Don't make your parents go up because you think it's the right thing. Did you do it for yourself?
If you have the means to go now, quit now. Both of you quit. It doesn't matter. Your money is going to compound, but your health is never going to come back.
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What if planning for aging didn’t mean giving up freedom—but actually gave you more of it? Today I’m talking with Iramis from Iramis & Gerry | Life+Travel, a licensed interior designer who creates spaces that actually work as we age, not just look nice and certified life and travel coach helping people design their lives with intention. In this candid conversation, we get real about: • How the choices you make today—whether you’re 20 or 70—affect your independence and safety • Small design changes that prevent accidents and keep your home functional for decades • Why travel, mobility, and memory go hand-in-hand as we get older • Practical steps for planning now so you don’t have to wait for a crisis Whether you’re planning for yourself, a parent, or a partner, this discussion will give you actionable ideas to stay independent, safe, and intentional about your future. 📌 Connect with Iramis & Gerry | Life+Travel: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IramisandGerry Website: https://iramisandgerry.com/ Link to Die With Zero book: https://amzn.to/4bCDU1O 📄 Download the Free PDF Estate Planning Guide – https://aging-on-your-terms-with-vicki-shop.fourthwall.com/products/estate-planning-guide-essential-steps-and-key-considerations 📖 Read the Blog post version (if you prefer not to download a PDF) https://agingonyourterms.com/16-essential-estate-planning-steps/ 🛒Get 15% off Aging On My Terms Merch: Promo Code: UNAPOLOGETIC15 or https://aging-on-your-terms-with-vicki-shop.fourthwall.com/promo/UNAPOLOGETIC15 🏢Business/sponsorship inquiries only: contact@agingonyourterms.com 🕰️TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Intro 01:03 – Meet Iramis: Designing Life & Spaces to Age on Your Terms 03:22 – Personal Moments on the Importance of Design for Aging 06:20 – Architectural Considerations to Support Accessibility & Aging in Place 12:14 – How to Start Aging-in-Place Planning Without Stress 17:12 – Small Updates to Your Home That Have a Huge Impact 20:10 – Consider Your Future Caregiving Needs 21:00 – Decluttering Supports Aging in Place 24:36 – Do it for Yourself to Help Loved Ones do the Same 27:17 – Using Psychology to Make the Toilet Accessible 29:11 – Importance of Accessible Travel Accommodations as we Age 30:06 – Why It’s Never Too Early to Plan for Aging 32:10 – Considerations for Parents Visiting your Home 35:51 – The Importance of Caring for Our Health 37:15 – Having Patience with Our Parents 40:58 – Happiness, Repetition, Mobility & Staying Independent Longer 44:57 – Difference Between Talking to Your Parent vs Seeing Your Parent 48:06 – The Hidden Costs of Not Planning for Aging 53:33 – The Trust Was Legal… But Not Funded—What That Means 55:59 – Early Retirement Advice from a Former Boss 58:42 – Die With Zero Takeaways 1:00:24 – Gen X: Burnout, Lay-offs, and Rethinking the Rat Race 1:02:07 – Advice to Younger Generations 1:05:16 – What You Will Find on Iramis’ YouTube Channel 1:09:46 – The Impact of 2020: Our Mindsets Have Changed 1:13:38 – Finding Community on YouTube 1:14:56 – The Compounding Effect: It’s Not Too Late to Plan 1:16:49 – Where to Find Iramis & Gerry | Life+Travel 1:17:39 – Plan: Because a Plan Without Goals is Just a Wish 1:19:05 – What’s One Step You Can Take Today to Age On Your Terms? 📝DISCLAIMERS: 1: Some links above may be affiliate links, meaning that I earn a small commission from what is ordered, at no extra cost to you. 2: This video is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for medical, health, legal, tax, or financial advice. Always consult with the relevant professionals before making any decisions. Use of this information is at your own risk. #AgingOnYourTerms #IntentionalAging #AgingInPlace #SeniorTravel #PlanningForTheFuture #IndependenceAsWeAge #TravelWithParents #LifePlanningTips #MemoryAndAging #SafeHomeTips #CaregivingTips #SwedishDeathCleaning #HealthyAging #MindfulAging