10 things I wish I knew about dating & relationships before working on cruise ships

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The creator provides a detailed overview of the unique challenges and social dynamics involved in dating while working on cruise ships. She explains that relationships often begin as casual hookups due to the environment and the lack of traditional dating culture. A significant portion of the discussion focuses on the lack of privacy, noting that roommates and the rapid spread of rumors can make maintaining a private relationship difficult. The creator highlights how the ship environment creates a permanent honeymoon phase because crew members are spared mundane domestic responsibilities and enjoy exotic locations daily. However, she warns that this can mask fundamental incompatibilities that only become apparent once the crew returns to land. She also describes the intensity of shipboard romance, where seeing a partner every day can make a few months feel like years of development. Finally, she addresses the difficulties of breakups, which can be particularly painful when crew members must continue to see their former partners in shared workspaces or living areas every day.
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If you've been with someone for four months on a cruise ship during your contract that is the same as being with someone for two years on land
You are allowed to say no even though it is a complete lie because you are seeing them you don't owe them anything
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