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10 things I wish I knew about dating & relationships before working on cruise ships

Cruising As Crew
Cruising As Crew
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👁️ 165K views📅 3 years ago⏱️ 22:59

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Editorial Summary

The creator provides a detailed overview of the unique challenges and social dynamics involved in dating while working on cruise ships. She explains that relationships often begin as casual hookups due to the environment and the lack of traditional dating culture. A significant portion of the discussion focuses on the lack of privacy, noting that roommates and the rapid spread of rumors can make maintaining a private relationship difficult. The creator highlights how the ship environment creates a permanent honeymoon phase because crew members are spared mundane domestic responsibilities and enjoy exotic locations daily. However, she warns that this can mask fundamental incompatibilities that only become apparent once the crew returns to land. She also describes the intensity of shipboard romance, where seeing a partner every day can make a few months feel like years of development. Finally, she addresses the difficulties of breakups, which can be particularly painful when crew members must continue to see their former partners in shared workspaces or living areas every day.

Written by TripBacon from this video's transcript.

What This Creator Said
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Veteran Cruiser

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Creator's Key Takeaways

If you've been with someone for four months on a cruise ship during your contract that is the same as being with someone for two years on land

You are allowed to say no even though it is a complete lie because you are seeing them you don't owe them anything

Creator's Tips & Advice

Keep relationships secret to avoid gossip and pressure from others.
Be aware that you don't truly know how someone handles real-life responsibilities (money, stress, family) while on a ship.
Take ship relationships for what they are rather than assuming they will last on land.
It is acceptable to lie to nosy crew members to protect your privacy.

🆕New to Cruising? This Creator Addresses:

Dating and finding loveUnderstand that the environment is more geared toward hookups and that dating culture is different than on land.
Privacy and reputationKeep your business to yourself and only tell people you trust to avoid unwanted opinions.
Intensity of relationshipsBe cautious of the 'honeymoon phase' and realize that ship relationships move much faster than land relationships.

Questions This Creator Answers

QWhat is the dating culture like on cruise ships?
QHow do relationships differ between ship life and land life?
QHow do you handle rumors and privacy while working onboard?

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